Swingers or Players? What ever... as far as
at the end is casual sex...
Swingers - Players & Casual Sex Related Information
How many swingers are there?
Swingers, swinging is an old story. Today
people d onto like to call themselves swingers. When they swing, they use the
word, play. They are players, sex players, but it wont change their sexual
activity. They can call how ever they want, they still swingers, so I will use
the word swingers on this webpage.
As swinging tends to be very popular and more popular day by day, even
if people call, themselves players, no one really can be certain how many people are involved. According to the latest worldwide statistic more than 10 million people say openly "I am a swinger". With out numbers we can say that, there are more swingers you could hope to meet in several lifetimes, and the number grows daily.
What sort of people are we likely to meet in swinging?
Any type, any age, any race and any occupation. The
same people who states it; We go to the party to play". This sentece stand for,
we going to have sex party!
How can I start to participate in casual sex?
The best way is to going directly to a
sex club or swingers club. There is no players club yet, or if it is, then you
will play card games or billiard there. So the swingers club is your best
chance.
At the swingers club, will be real peoples less pressure, and more options.
But you need to be happy and confident. happy and confident people are
attractive. All of the people, men and women, are there for the same reason. Looking for adult fun. If you can't find clubs nearby
you, check out our on-line swingers magazine.
The magazine
have a section, where is members post their
local sex party information and many other swingers, swinging related
things. Check it out at next.
Where to should I post our erotic personal ad?
It's easy enough to find sites that claim to be meeting places for swingers, too easy, in fact, for there are hundreds out there. Our best advice,
try us. You can try us free.
The basic membership is free, which include many free service.
The big differences between the two membership: Pay member get many more then
a free members... and I think nothing wrong with that. Pay member contact what
ever they want. Free members can contact only members who indicated they do not
mind if somebody with free membership contact them.
What about safe sex?
Erotic play, and swinging is as safe as you want it to be! Of course is some risk are there, but in the today's world is risks are everywhere! Condom usage among swingers varies widely. At clubs that have a very open membership, where people often have sex with folks they've never met before, condoms are quite common. But, you just never can tell. So, even if you believe that condoms are the antithesis of intimacy, we advise packing your rubbers wherever you go.
Are swingers bisexual?
Depends on their gender. Seems to be more bisexual female. Really hard to say number here but some women enjoy playing with women, but prefer men for sex. Some others sometimes will play with, women and some find the idea distasteful. Men are pretty much the other way around. You could swing for a long time and never run across a man who preferred sex with men over sex with women. Very few of swingers men would admit that they are bisexual.
Tattooed Pussies
Around the year 60s and 70s we could see men with tattoos on different parts of their bodies.
At that time tattoo for woman was taboo. At that time a tattoo on a woman,
marked her as a criminal or a prostitute. After tattoo came the shaving.
Man, if they do not like to have fation hair - they have to shave. Life is quite different today. Today more women have tattoos than men
and almost every women shave. The question is what they shave. Their armpit,
legs, or their pussy...
Women ho do not shave, consider as dirty. Is she really dirty? No I do not
think so, but personally myself, I do not prefer go down on a hairy pussy.
However tattoo on real pussy into hard core play, you can even tongue fuck it. I
am sure your effort will be deeply appreciated.
If swinging is a couple's activity, why do clubs allow single people to attend?
Many clubs do not allow singles, others only allow them on certain nights, some allow single females but not single males, and others allow both, but usually with some restriction on the number of single males. The higher rate of bisexuality among women is the rationale most often stated for permitting single females. The higher endurance of women is the rationale most often stated for permitting single males. We suspect, however, that the higher amounts of money to be made by charging single males more than the normal admission is the real reason that many clubs follow this practice. [Expressing this view will no doubt cost us some "friends" in the business, but our sense of fairness and equality demands it. If greed is not the motive, then single females and males should only be admitted in equal numbers and for an equal price.]
Is it a good idea to invite my swinging friends to a party with my non-swinging friends?
Are the swingers really friends? If so, you should certainly be able to trust them not to do anything rude or revealing at your party. Are the non-swingers really friends? If so, you surely have told them about your lifestyle and they will treat any of your other friends with courtesy. But, if these folks are simply social acquaintances, and they do not know anything about your swinging life style, then you will need to give the matter more consideration.
What about my job? Will I putting it at risk by swinging?
It is depend on where do you live and work. Some North American cities very conservative. It happened before people have lost their jobs because their swinging life was discovered. I don't think it will happen today if you do not mix the work with the personal life. Sometimes police raids on clubs have happened, in conservative cities, but almost never are the clientele given any trouble, just the operators. Swingers we have known include doctors, dentists, lawyers, teachers, media personalities, high-ranking military officers and intelligence personnel, and members of several local police departments. Some were more cautious than other, but they all managed to enjoy themselves. If you have a sensitive jobs, you should choose your partner very carefully and never from your work place.
What if I meet someone
at the swingers club or at sex party I know?
Nothing. Anyone you meet is there too, for the same reason... Having fun. So say hello and enjoy yourselves. The best advice is, sometimes is good to have a bad memory. In this case if you left the club, you should not remember who are the people inside and what they did with who...
How can we be sure we’ll like
sex play or swinging?
You can’t if you will not try. Most of the swinger couples have an unpleasant swinging experience. Usually it happen with new couples. That’s okay. Figure out what went wrong and try again. If you or your partner do not like it, you should not do it. Never push your partner.
