Finger Fuck, How Should You Finger Fuck Her

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Let's talk about finger fucking

As I mentioned at above, finger fucking can be and should be a very important part of the love making session. Basically the male partner should get her ready to receive the real thing. As you can see on the picture at left, that young stud does a pretty good job on her. She is sitting on his lap backward, with slightly open legs. He is free to kissing her neck, while playing with her boob and one of his hand is in her bikini. Probably he does plays with her clit or already fingering her.

Finger fucking is an art. Her pussy is not a beer. You don't have to grab it. You have to play with it. Finger fuck is not "developed" for check how wet she is. Finger fuck is to get her ready to the penetration, to prepare her, turn her on and get her wet enough to receive your penis.

A lot of men has a bad idea about finger fuck

They want to fuck her with their fingers as they do with their cock. It never going to turn her on. Your finger is not your cock. You can't do the same thing with it. If she moans, she does it, because it hurt or uncomfortable, not because she is almost having a orgasm.

Male hands wasn't created to giving an orgasm to women. It can be done, and it is done a lot of time, however you have to learn to be gently with her genital, you have to learn her body, when speed up and when slow down, she might want your finger hard or soft in and out. If you just poke 2 maybe 3 finger inside her, and just try to develop her vagina inside, she never going to orgasm, not from your finger and probably not even from you cock.

Before you do anything, you have to make sure, your fingernails are short and clean. You never use the same finger in her vagina and in her anus. If you do you will transfer all kind of nasty bacteria from her anus into her vagina. They are living in the anus, they are harmless there, but they can create nasty infections if they get into the vagina.

Let her offer her pussy to you. Experienced guys takes their time before they get into her vagina. You should start with gently caresses that barely touch the inner thigh and genital hair.  Gently massaging her mount of Venus. They don't do to much more until she opens her legs and her pelvis begin to move upward. She offers her pussy to him, she give him an access to get into her love tunnel.

Get back to the picture at the top right. In that position he can touching her in the same way how she touch herself when plays with herself. He can play with her clit, he can gently massage her pussy lips, he has access all of her sensitive areas. He can be very gently with her vulva, because he can rest his hand on her mons and with that support his fingers can be more gently, more playful.

They are really close. She sits in his lap. It's allows him to feel when her hips begin to move, turn. He feels how she is tensing up, so he can pick a perfect timing to got to the next step.

On the picture at right is a vigorous finger fucking. They are in doggy style. He moves two of his finger in and out from her. Probably they are know each other very well. Not many women love this position, however it is very erotic. Her rear end in his face. I don't think you should try that position on your first date.

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What should you do with your finger inside her

Your finger is not your penis. You should not try to do the same with your finger and your penis. You can bang her with your penis, but can't with your finger. But you can prepare her with your fingers to receive your penis.  Investigate her love tunnel inside with fingers. Lube up your fingers. Your saliva might do it, but water based moisturizers are better. Slip your  first finger into her.

Find her G Spot

Now turn your hand, and try to find her G spot with your middle finger. If you did she will moan. Put a light pressure on that magic spot and massage it slightly. Some women can orgasm from this. Some other can have orgasms form only this and for  few it don't make any difference.

From this moment, you should have full control over  everything. You have to choose the right time when you enter her in with your penis. You should feel the tension in her body, the excitement in her breathing. If her hip is moving back and for you should not wait any longer.

If you would live to know more about fore plays and how to get a woman into the "I want sex now" mood, this website has a lot of ideas and tips and sex position.

The other way to learn how to finger fuck her is to ask her to help you. She should provide you with a lot of help and you should listen and do what she ask you to do.

Men's hand created for do a lot of things with, but finger fuck wasn't on the creator's what to do what to do list... so it might get a little frustrating when a strong hard working guy's or might be a working out  fanatic guy's hand, try to fine turn a woman's pussy.

He might pushing his finger inside her to hard or fingering her to fast . It might not make sense for her, but men usually do this because when men masturbate, they speed up when they get close to climax.

If you plan to finger fuck her, you really should know, what you are doing, or just might make more damage than good. If you are not sure, much better if you stay out with your finger from her vagina.  Women are different. Some of them might want your finger go faster or deeper. Some others want you to be very gently. You will know her preferences if you ask her or you might find out from your own  experience and for her reaction  if you have patience and willingness to learn her body.

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