Glossary of Swinging. Popular Words Used by Swingers.

Common terms and words that use by swingers

Online dating and lifestyle world. Swingers glossary, swinger terminology.
Swingers jargon.


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69 SIXTY-NINE

Man and women perform oral sex on each other at the same time. They look like number 69. Follow the above link for more info.

ADULT TOYS

Sexual aids. Dildos, vibrators, balls, rings. Almost anything can be sex toy. Lot of people believe in the best sex toys is the human brain!

ALL CULTURES

Person or couple who enjoys all fetishes and sexual activities. Follow the above link for more info.

BBW

Stand for big and beautiful women.

CHEATING

Sexual activity with others without spouse's knowledge and consent.

CLEAN

Hygienic, free of sexually transmitted diseases.

CPL

CPL is male and female couple. Follow the above link for more.

CULTURE

Fetish, see bondage above.

CUM BATH

Some swingers women like men with lot of semen. Men who comes like porn stars. Follow the link above for more.

 
DOUBLE PENETRATION (DP)

Could mean: Two penises in the vagina, two penises in the rectum, anal and vaginal sex at the same time or any of the above combination. Follow the above link for more.

FRENCH CULTURE

Oral-genital sexual activity. Follow the above link for more.

GREEK CULTURE

Anal sex. Follow the above link for more.

GO DOWN

You go down on someone to the genital to perform oral sex. Follow the link above for more.

GROUP ROOM

Room for group sex, furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Popular only in US.

HARDCORE SWINGERS

Swinger couples or groups having sexual contact with and with out their partner. For them friendship is not a issue. Sex only relationship. Follow the above link for more.

HORNY

In need of sexual pleasure. Follow the above link for more.

INTERRACIAL

Partners of different races.

LATINA

Latina is a person with Spanish background. Often used by females.

MARITAL AIDS

Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others.

MAT-ROOM

Room for group sex. Follow the above link fro view group sex's room related rules.

NEWCOMERS - NEW BIE

New people in swinging. First-timers. Follow the above link for an example.

OUTDOORS

Swingers like to have sex outside.

PARTY HOUSE

A non-membership swing club offering a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. Follow the above link to visit a on premise swingers club.

RECREATIONAL SEX

Sexual activity with others than spouse which might or might not include intercourse. See casual sex above.

RESTRAINT

Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments.

RUBBER

Condom to practise safe sex.

SGL

Single person.

SHOW CASE

Popular swingers sex positions. Follow the above link for detailed sex positions.

SOCIAL OR SWING CLUB

Lifestyle clubs, often called swingers club or social clubs. Usually need to have membership to attends. All club may have different rules. It is not a bad idea to ask the rules before visit the club. Follow the above link to visit a on premise swingers club.

STR

Strait, No sexual activity between same sex person.

SWAPPING

Full swinging, including partners exchange, partners swap. Follow the link above for more.

SWINGING LIFESTYLE

Open sex life, open marriages, sex with others in a present of the spouse. Alternative lifestyle.

TINY

If women say he is tiny, it means his penis is smaller than average. Follow the above link for more.

UTOPIAN SWINGER

A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals.

WATER SPORT

Urinating in sexual intercourse, most of the time on the partner. It is not a popular swingers activity

ANAL PLAY

Sexual play with the anus. Might insert finger, toy, penis in to the anus. Follow the above link for more info.

BDSM

Stand for pain and pleasure with bondage, domination and or sado-masochism. Follow the above link for more info.

BONDAGE

A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive". Follow the above link for more.

CASUAL SEX

Recreational sexual activity with others. No commitment attached.

CLOSED SWINGING

Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms in the same house. Partners of a marriage or other intimate relationship do not visually observe each other's swinging. Follow the above link for more info.

CUNNILINGUS

Male perform oral sex on female. He "eats" her pussy. Licks her vagina, tongue fuck her. Follow the above link for more.

CURIOUS

Curious the person who thinking about swinging or bi sexuality, but did not make up his / her mind yet. Follow the above link for more. 

CLIT
Clitoris, the sensitive organ just in front of the vagina

DEEP THROAT

Deep throat is a oral sex techniques, that only oral dedicated person can perform. Follow the above link for detailed explanation.

DISCIPLINE

Verbal role playing.

DISCRETION

Do not talk about your and others swinging activity.

EXHIBITIONISM

Turn on from being watched in a sex act. It happens usually at public place. Or sexual fantasies, urges, or behaviours involving surprise exposure of the individual's privet body parts, genitals to a stranger. Follow the above link for more.

FOUR SOME

Sexual activity with 4 different gender person. Follow the above link for more.

HAND JOB

Masturbation or give orgasm to sex partner by hand. Follow the above link for more info.

HEAD GAMERS

People who talks, but when time to comes to the action, they back off.

GANGBANG

When four or more guys having sex with one woman at the same time or taking turns with her. Follow the above link for more info.

INDOOR SPORTS

In side swinging activities in general. No sex outside of the house, club etc.

MATURE

Usually a women or couple over the age of 50. In swinging usually older women swings with younger men. Follow the above link for more info.

MASOCHISM

Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others.

MEET FOR PLEASURE

Will meet for  sex. Friendship does not necessary. No commitments sex.

ORGY

Same room group sex involving five or more people in which partners are exchanged. Follow the above link for examples.

P/P

Photo and phone number.

PIGGY

A sub (missive) who can take a lot of pain and likes to show off.

SAFE

Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate, a man who has had a vasectomy.

S&M

Sadism and Masochism.

SOFT SWINGING

Sexual activity with out intercourse with others then the own partner. Other words, no full partner swap.

SWAPPING - FULL SWAP

Couples exchange partners for intercourse. Follow the above link for more.

TEMPORARY LOVER

One night stand. Sex partner for one night only. Follow the link above for more.

TITS SEX - TITIES SEX

The stimulation of sexual intercourse with her breast. Often called "boob fuck". Follow the link above for more.

TRIMMED

Genital's cosmetics. Shaved, trimmed, hairy or the combination of three. Follow the above link for more.

WELL HUNG

Men who's penis extra large. 8 inches and up. Follow the above link for more.

VERSATILE

Bisexual

VIAGRA

ASIAN

People originated from Asia. Oriental men and women. Follow the above link for more.

BI

Bisexuals attracted to both sexes.
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CASUAL SEX

No commitment sex relationship. Follow the above link for more. .

CUM

Swingers term for semen, or have a orgasm. Follow the above link for more semen related info.

CAN ENTERTAIN

Willing to invite others to their home for swingers sexual activity. Details like this should be in your personal ads. Follow the above link for more.

CAN TRAVEL

Willing to travel to your location to meet with you.  Details like this should be in your personal ads. Follow the above link for more.

COUPLE

In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living together or going relationship or a single couple dating for swinging purposes. The last is very rail. Follow the above link for more.

DILDO

An artificial penis, with both end usable for sexual stimulation. Follow the above link for more.

D/S

Dominant/submissive role playing or lifestyle.

FELLATIO

Oral sex, the female give it to the male. Often called Blow job. She sucks his cock to turn him on or to give him orgasm. Follow the above link for more info.

F M F THREESOME

Female - male - female threesome. Intercourse between two female - one male. Usually one of the female is bi sexual. Follow the link above for more.

FRIENDSHIP WITH BENEFIT

Sexual relationship between friends. Usually between your best friend and  his / her boyfriend / girlfriend. Folow thw above link for more.

ENGLISH CULTURE

Sexual activity with pain. Pain and pleasure. GIRL/GIRL sexual contact between Females. They are lesbians. Follow the above link for view lesbian ads.

GROUP

More than three people involved in any form of sexual activity. It can happen on hard core swingers party. Follow the above link for more info.

HETERO or HETEROSEXUAL

Normal sexual behave to the opposite sex.

HOMOSEXUAL

Sexually attracted to the people of the same sex, other word gay, lesbian. Follow the above link for more info.

INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP

Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values. Used chiefly in personal ads and letters in answer to personal ads.

MASTER/SLAVE

Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship.

MANAGE A' TRIOS

On going three some.

ONE NIGHT STAND

No commitment one time only  recreational sexual activity with other than the spouse.  Might or might not include intercourse. 

OPEN SWINGING

A couple swinging with another couple in the same room. Other word, same room fun. Follow the above link for view swingers couples' profiles.

PASSIONATE SEX

Passionate, kinky sexual activity to spice up couples sexual life. Follow the above link for more.

PLAYING PLAY ROOM

Room set up for intercourse. It is very rude to go into playing room and start to looking. Follow the above link for more.

POCKET ROCKET

Adult toy. Small vibrator with hard, ends popular with porn stars and used frequently in blue movies. Follow the above link for more.

PRO

Prostitutes or paid escorts.

PUSSY EATING

Perform oral sex on vagina. Follow the link above for more.

RECREATIONAL SWINGER

A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion with no desire for emotional attachment.

S.A.S.E.

Self-addressed stamped envelope.

SINGLE

A single or married swinger without his/her partner.

S.T.D. or STD

Sexually transmitted disease.

SWINGING

Sharing partner for sexual activity.

TRIAD

Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. It is more then a threesome. It is something like permanent threesomes. Follow the link above for more.

VOYEUR

A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. Other word soft swinger, watcher.