Masturbation And Swinging

Masturbation advice for women and men.

The main reason for masturbating is that it feels good and it is 100% safe. Swingers or non swingers, it doesn't make any difference if we talking about masturbation. More than 99% of the sexually ready  people masturbate. About 99 % of them don't make a secret of this fact. The rest of them  masturbate too but they deny it. They think this is something that they have to be ashamed about. They are wrong. Masturbation is good for you and good for your partner and good for both of you if you watch each other...  If you masturbate alone you only have to worry about yourself and if you do it alone and do it the proper way, then it is 100% safe. Also, masturbation is a great stress reliever.

For  something extra, masturbation may help  everyone to understand their own sexual nerve systems.  Where it is sensitive and what you enjoy the most. If you don't know these things, how can you direct your sex partner to please you?

You do not believe how many women masturbate. They masturbate alone, they masturbate in the presence of their partner, or they masturbate with their partner. Also some women masturbate with their girlfriends too. They do it often, and most of them do it well. They do it because it is a erotic fun, it feels good and gives a sexual satisfaction with out intercourse. Some of them use sex toys and some others just use their own hand - fingers and imagination. How they do it?

The Basic Masturbation Position For Women

At first you need to be relaxed. You can not masturbate if you worry someone going to open the bedroom's door on you. You can not masturbate if your kids are running all over the house. You need peace and quiet. You have to get yourself into the mood. Romantic music, a glass of wine might help. If you want to get kinky, pop  a XXX move into the DVD player or a VCR and start to watch it. Let your imagination "fly free and high." Imagine yourself with the world's sexiest man, or with your best lover. If you really want to get kinky imagine yourself with both at the same time. It should turn you on.  Now lie on your back, hold the legs tightly together press against the vulva. Or simulate the clitoris with pillows, towels or blankets. Or point two fingers in a downward V around the clitoris, and apply pressure to the sides and the tops. Use the flat of your hand to grind the clitoris and insert the other hand's finger(s) at the same time into the vagina then out. Try to finger yourself in a rhythm that best fits your needs.

Also women who loves hard rough sex twist their clitoris between their index finger and thumb. You can do anything that feels good. You can play with your anus area, but never put the same finger into your anus and into your vagina. You might pick up all kinds of nasty infections. Once you had an orgasm should try again, practice makes perfect.

Also you can masturbate in the privacy of your own bathroom. If you have a pool or hot tub, get in front of one of the jets and spread your legs as far as you can. Let the water hit your clit. Start at far from the jet first and slowly moves closer to figure it out what pressure is the best for you. It feels great for most of the ladies and they cum very quickly. If you do not have hot tub or Jacuzzi bath, you can use the hand shower or just the bath tub. Sit down and let the water fill until your tummy. Then unscrew the shower head, so that you have a very strong stream of water directed toward your clit. Open your legs and enjoy. No hand shower, no problem. Put your weight in your arm and legs, (your tummy is up) and move your genital under the water top while to water is running. It should not take more then 2 minutes to reach an orgasm.

Some of the ladies use all kind of things, fruits, bananas, carrots, cucumbers, bottles, etc. as sex toys. I do not think it is a good idea to put anything into your vagina, that is not meant to be. Fruits and vegetables are definitely not created for sex toys. You might pick up an infection or something might get stuck inside you and you will end up in a emergency room. Can you imagine yourself what'll you say when the doctors ask you: What can I do for you today?" For a few dollars anyone can buy a functional and safe vibrator.  If you do not mind to pay a bit more, you can get a vibrator, that is better than a real dick.

Lubrication is vitally important for masturbate too. A great product that lubricates and stimulates blood flow to erogenous tissue, increasing sensitivity and enhancing climax, is HerSolution Gel™. Don't just focus on the genitals; take time to explore your whole body, concentrating on your most sensitive parts such as breasts. If there is a trigger that usually lights you up during sex with a partner, then try to incorporate that into your solo play if possible. This is a great time to explore fantasy and sexual taboos. Exhibitionism for the Shy author suggests breaking your own sexual limits - such as, if you've wanted to talk dirty in bed with your partner, then try it out first to yourself when you're alone. This will make you more comfortable with the idea, even if it only happens when you're alone.

By yourself, there is no one else to please - the focus is on you. See what gets you hot and bothered. Remember, it is completely normal to fantasize about someone who isn't your partner. Now it's up to you what you take out of this exploration, but if you'd like to continue feeling great, communicating all that you learned you like with your partner is important to a more fulfilling sex life. And while you're at it, remember to pick up some HerSolution Gel™!

Masturbation Advice For Men

The Traditionally Two Handed

Lubricate both of your hand and  and place them side by side on the middle of your dick. Wrap your fingers around you dick and apply some pleasure.  Move one hand down while moving the other hand up. Turn your dick about 1/4 a turn than switch directions. 1/4 turn to the other way while moving both hand to the opposite direction (up and down). Keep switching directions and turning your dick back and forth. The faster you go, the better it feels.  Don't stop until you are done.

Masturbate With Your Female Sex Partner

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