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Are you a noise lover? Are you making a lot of noises while having sex? Or do
you grit your teeth, and close your mouth tightly? A lot of people do make
noises when having sex. They might moan or groan with pleasure or even
scream out loud. Some others speak with their partner. Also your body might make
noises that you can't help - squelching and squishing. If you pound her
pussy hard her vagina might make a funny, fart like noise. Although this vagina
noise may sound like a fart, it is not even related. This noise is made by the air. Air can get pushed up inside
her pussy
during hard sex. There is not much you can do about it, but if this bothers you, try to
pick another sex position up to preventing air from
entering the vagina. Some positions, doggie style or variation of missionary
(her legs up by her ears) make it easier for
the air to get in.
These body noises from her pussy are
perfectly normal, and some people love them and find them funny. Swinging and
sex should be fun, why should you put up with the noises? The other kind of noises that sex
partners make during sex are with their mouths. Which one is better, being a
loud or a quiet sex partner? This is a
subject that I think everyone who has ever seen a porno movie has thought about.
All those porn actresses groaning and moaning and screaming with few well hung
guys in a extra uncomfortable positions, how can they enjoy it? You just know it, for them it is work not fun
and a movie like this can be a big turn off.
Some guys love it when their partner moans from pleasure. For them the
noises are the appreciation of their sex skills. Her oooh' s, ahhhh 's, and
oh-yes give it to me baby's are a big part of his sexual pleasure. Her pleasure
filled moans turn him on much more and make him perform better. If your
partner is like this you can talk to him. Give him some advice what to do and it
will positively help to your partner to please you. Don't be afraid to
whisper into his ear with your must erotic voice "Oooo,
that feels sooo dam good. Don't stop"! You can repeat this a few times...
Usually every men hates to ask and hates to take directions from a lady, but they
will love to take
direction, even orders in a situation like this! If he'll find your real pleasure point,
let him know: "Oooo, right on, keep sucking it. It
drives me crazy". Remember guys love to hear the names of the female's body parts
from the mouth of a female. Don't be bashful about being explicit, and you'll see how
your sex partner gets turned on when you talk this way.
A lot of men perform oral sex on their
female partner, because they believe they can not give orgasm for
her by vaginal sex. Maybe because they do reach the no return point
too fast, or the size of their penis is not compatible
the size of their partner's vagina. Also they might choose the wrong sex position.
People say that the size is not important, the secret is the
technique. Others say size is not important for but it is for
men with a small dick. I don't want to say which one is better a small dick or
a big one, but if you are looking at swingers ads,
you can read them: "Looking for men with 8 inch cock". So
doesn't the
size matter? It is fact, with a small dick, hard to reach her "G"
point.
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For these kind of guys those moans and groans give a lot of sexual energy. They love it
when their sex partner lets out the pleasure sounds during sex or at any
point in fore play. For them a moan is much better then just saying "I
really enjoy your company. I'm having so
much fun with you"!
And what about guys? Should they make noises? Some of them are quiet and
some others are loud sex partners. The quiet type feels aroused and appreciative,
but they don't express their feelings with words. Maybe they feel embarrassed, or
they find that noises and words reduce sensation and pleasure. Instead of
moaning and howling, they show their excitement by the rhythm and pace of their
movements, their breathing, heartbeat, and in the case of many men, by their
erection. The problem is that not every woman likes the quiet type of guy. Also
we talking about swinging and this means that the sex partners might not know
each other were well, they might not know what please and how to please their
new sex partner. If you want to have a great sex, you should
include talking with your partner about what is your expectation from him. This
bring up another question? What to say and how to say? What ever you want to
say, you say it, but start with seductive and erotic compliments, like: I
really like your hairy (or brown) chest. Or ohhh your cock is so hard.... After
this
you have to give him information what turn you on. Don't be scared to ask him to go
down on you. Most of the swinger men are more then happy to do so with out asking.
And when the intercourse happens to start either of you should not be shy about
your feelings. Both of you should let the partner know how close you are to the
no return point. You can tell it with a few words. Something like: I am almost cuming... don't stop it please! If you don't want to talk and some people need
to concentrate that hard, they can not talk in a situation like this, then you
should let your partner know that with your moans and groans (moan more
often and louder) you are getting close to have a orgasm. And if you are having
a mind blowing orgasm, scream it out loud. However you don't need to scream
that loud to have the neighbours to dial 911 in panic or the people in the
hotel room next door ring up the porter. Because there are no two people
the same, for some others silence means
more than any words. Our advice, here at the end, try to be yourself and don't fake
it. Don't moan and groan if you don't enjoy what you do. Is she faking orgasm?
How can a man tell it? Click here
to find it out.
If you would like to read more about love making noises,
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