SWINGERS LIFESTYLE PARTY
What you should do if someone invited you
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Respond to all Invitations:What you should do if someone invited you to a swingers lifestyle party? For starters you should respond. All invitations should be answered in a week. It doesn't mean reply only if you plan to attend. Good etiquette and good social courtesy demand you respond, by calling, writing (email) to say clear yes or no. Bring something or don't?Never go empty handed to someone's house party. Ask from the host if there is something you can bring and ask the dress code too. If everyone will wear pyjamas, you should not wear a fancy dress. At the party:The most important thing is to have a good time and enjoy yourself. Relax, even if you do not know everyone there. Try to become as at ease as you would be at your friends Tupperware party. Don't hesitate to introduce yourselves to other people, but don't be pushy. Be prepared to handle rejection but don't take it personally. It is important to remember that personal choice is the right of every individual and to respect that right is only common courtesy. Learn how to accept "no thank you" graciously. Your approach, which should be the same as it would be at the Tupperware party, is a key factor to your acceptance as a desirable partner. There are several variations to swinging and it is important that you and your partner decide, in advance, those which you like and dislike. Some couples prefer to be alone, while others prefer to be with other couples, etc. Establish your own rules, but please decide on them before you go that party. Not only establish, but keep those rules! Alcohol drugs and sex:No drugs at all. Period. When it comes to alcohol, most of the swingers do not mind a drink or two, to calm their nerves. That's fine, but drink in moderation. If you want to get drunk, you shouldn't go to a swinger's party. Over drinking may hamper your physical abilities as well as may offend or turn other people off to you. Sex... and safe sex:You have one life and one body per life time so you should take a good care of both. However it is up to you to protect yourself as well as your partners. But with the present concern over sexually transmitted diseases, unprotected sex is unacceptable. The use of condoms should not offend anybody. Swingers and cleanness:Nothing turns a person off faster and more effectively than bad body smell. I don't say that you should take a shower 5 times a night, but be clean at anytime. Be prepared for everything. Carry a small overnight bag for lingerie or a robe, hairbrush, comb, toothbrush, cologne, intimate cleansing articles, condoms, etc. About your open minded host:Remember you are invited to a erotic party at somebody else's place. However organized that party may be, they might have set up their own rules. Common rules related to smoking - drinking - play area. Obey those rules, even if you disagree with some of them. Very rude to:
At the end:If you are a couple, go together - leave together. Never leave with out your mate! And what else? Say thanks: The social courtesy of a "Thank-You" note or phone call to someone whose hospitality you enjoyed means a lot to most people. You should say thanks even, if the party wasn't the best party in your life. There always is a next time and the host will surely remember you when planning the next event. Following the above rules are an effective way to make yourself welcome within any swinging community.
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