Male Insecurity -Jealousy & SwingingMaybe he is always horny. Maybe
she is the horny one, or both of them are over sexed.... | |
The Jealous Swinger HusbandSo, you finally talked your wife into swinging. She’s fine-looking and sexy. Every time you go to the swingers club or to open minded friend's party, lot of guys are checking her out. So, you hold her closer, have a protective arm around her, and stares at the other guys. You closely watch her every move and feel a pang of jealousy and insecurity, even at times when it is not the least bit warranted. And once it happened, you finally got screw somebody's else wife and your partner's husband screwed your wife. He was younger and better looking than you are and he's cock was bigger and he was able to screw her all night long. He gave her multiply orgasms several times. This wasn't in you calculation. Isn't it? She not supposed to have more fun than you have. Do you think is right? |
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The bug of jealousy have planted itself the middle of your brain. You think that as soon you leave your home he is there. And they having fun without you. You constantly call her up to check up on her or count the seconds before she answers your call. You’ve been too paranoid too many times whenever she says she’s out with her girl friends or co-workers, or if she’s meeting up with a high school sweetheart or an ex-flame. You instantly erupt in jealous rage at the mention of past loves. You feel trapped by your insecurity and direct your energy to over protectiveness and jealousy instead. You want to control and have the upper hand in swinging. You utilize the possess-and-isolate tactic on her. You want to choose swinging partner for her. Remember swinging is couple's game. She has as much right as you have to choose sex partners. You should not push her. Your friends are exasperated with you and upset at how possessive you are. |
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So where does all this insecurity and jealousy spring from? Remember you talked her into swinging. Haven't you? Male insecurity has also been known to directly correlate with a deficiency in the size of the male member. Many swingers and non swingers men are bothered that their penis are not big enough or they’re not gonna please their ladies with their current size. This is very true in the swingers lifestyle, where his permanent female partner or wife have chance to have sex with guys, who's penis bigger than his. This probably explains the thriving and often lucrative business that is penis enlargement. Another reason might be his technique. You think he can give her better orgasm. He might - but this is the nice about swinging. Also you can work on your technique. Educate yourself, the knowledge is power in sex! Don't forget the money. Many guys feel disdain, oftentimes envy, towards other men who are better off than themselves. With more money, you could make yourself highly desirable and attractive. Yeah it is true. With lot of money easy to be successful, but just money not make real man. You can't buy orgasm to her - you have to make her cum.... Men, just like women, also need to be liked. They want to be
respected, adored, and esteemed. They want to be feel important and
special to someone. They like to be popular, specially in the sex
department. Remember if there is no real deep love and there is no trust, swinging
is not for you. Swinging is sex only. If you do not know how to separate
sex and love don't even bother to try. It will wreck your marriage... |
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