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Swingers women on the other hand are different. They want to have orgasm and
want to have no commitment sex relationship too. They are horny but they are
picky also. The slut takes men who ever she gets, swinger lady choose men to be
her sex partners. They are able to. They know that they will have a
lot of men who want to be with them. This allows them to be pickier than
men.
They know all they have to do is talk to a man. Be nice clean and sexy and he is
in the palm of her hand. She knows that by dressing sexy, she will get her
pick of men. A horny guy on the other hand, just tries to bang any woman
he can. If she is good looking, that is extra pleasure for him... Men want to
pass on their genes at all cost. Their sex drive is stronger. In the
animal world men have to be. They have to be so the species can survive.
If they weren't like this, the species would die off.
It brings up interesting points. Why would a woman be a swinger?
Especially if she knows how society views it? It brings up many things, but most
of them are pretty simple. Maybe she has a strong sex drive and she doesn't get
enough sex at home. Or she has erotic fantasies. Or she is very often
horny. Women get horny too and they don't make secret of it... Don't be
too shocked at that. Women aren't the old fashioned women of the 50's
anymore. An orgasm feels just as good to them as it does to guys. Maybe
she has emotional issues, or maybe her husband talked her into it. Maybe
she uses sex as a way to make her feel needed and beautiful. Some women
feel that if they can attract enough men, that means they are beautiful.
They know that the only thing a man cares about is what is between their
legs. Swinger lady will serve her body for a man, (maybe for men) for a return(s)
of sexual fulfilment.
Lot of men believe in, easy to find sex partner for a woman. Men thinks to
have no commitment sex, no women needs to be a swinger. She just should go to
the first bar and let herself pick up by the first guy. He will bang her....
or she might have a change to bang him. So she should act like a
slut. Should she?
But please remember, swinging is more just screw someone brain out.
Swinging is casual sex, and sometimes develops into no commitment sex
relationship. Which is mean no cheating on your partner, no pirate sexual action
behind your permanent partner, no phone calls to call you for a date, no
complication with family members, and lot of discretion...
Some of the today's women may start to swing, because of the above reasons.
Some other choose to be a slut.
Why would a women be a slut? Because they were molested. This one is going to
take some explaining. Being molested as a child changes everything that
you know. We are always taught as a child that our bodies and special and
that we need to protect them from strangers. Well, often times they don't
tell us what to do if uncle child molester wants to touch our private parts. We
don't expect people who love us and people we look up to to hurt us. So
children are apt to allowing family members to molest them. If they are a
young child, they probably don't know any better. We live in such a sexually
oppressed world, that they probably don't know they are doing a sexual act.
This really does effect a lot of women. More than we can imagine. There
are millions and millions of women who were raped when they were kids. I think
women who are molested become sluts because it helps cover up the pain.
Sex is like a drug to them. It is like acceptance too. They knew it
pleased the molester when they did sexual acts, so in their minds they would
like to please everyone.
In this day and age of diseases, everyone should act very carefully when
things start to get really hot. There are diseases you can get very easy.
I had a female friend who got herpes from oral sex. Life is too short to
die from a disease you got while having sex. I would rather masturbate
than perform unprotected sex! There is no 100% safe sex just safer sex. You can
make it as safe as you want it. It's simple no condom - no sex!
You should always wear a condom when having sex. You should get your mind set to
it and your body will get used to it. If you change sex partners
frequently, please wear a condom. It could save your life and your family
future.
Don't like condom? Can't stand it? Use your imagination and do something
else. For example go for the hand job or
fuck by the tits... Those are nice ways to avoid getting a disease and
getting your rocks off.
Masturbation can be fun for both of you. It will make your chances of
getting a STD almost zero and you both get off.
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